L_O_V_E

I have always been a dreamer, always imagining a hypothetical love, like in the movies. Those beautiful scenes of love and wonderful things. But I grew up and became cynical and realistic. Nowadays, I have discovered the true love of my life: myself.

I put myself first. My life, my dreams, and everything I want come first. I have seen women suffer because they put their dreams aside and diminish themselves for their partners, and I never wanted that for myself. I have known for a long time that I do not want that for myself. I want to put myself first. If I do not put myself first, who will?

This makes it a little tricky, in my opinion, to find love. I am an independent woman who does not need anyone, but that does not mean I do not want someone by my side. However, the fact is that I will be more selective, which makes it a little difficult. I will not diminish myself or change for anyone, and I do not want anyone with me to do the same.

I want our dreams to converge, but I also want us to keep our dreams separate. I want us to be one person, yet two at the same time, to learn how to live together and apart.

Is that too much to ask?